Wedding 101

Here's What Bridesmaids Can Really Expect to Spend on All Those Pre-Wedding Events

Collect, manage, and organize your wedding guest information for each event and track their preferences.
As bridal showers and bachelorette parties (or should we say weekend getaways!) continue to become more and more elaborate, one thing remains constant... You can expect to shell out quite a bit of cash to participate in your pal's pre-wedding events! From the engagement party to the big day, here's a breakdown of what you can expect to spend as a bridesmaid:
Engagement Party $25-$100
Small Gift for the Couple $25-100
Bridal Shower (25 Guests or Under, Hosted by You) 
Approximately $475-$725
Food and Beverage (Around $15 per guest) $375
Invitations and Postage $25-$50
Decorations $50-$100
Bridal Shower Gift  $25-$200
Bridal Shower (30-50 Guests, Hosted by You) 
Approximately $925-$1,200
Food and Beverage (Around $15 per guest) $750
Invitations and Postage $50-$100
Decorations $100-$150
Bridal Shower Gift $25-$200
Bridal Shower (If You're Attending) 
Approximately $25-$200
Bridal Shower Gift $25-$200
Bachelorette Party 
Approximately $120-$170 
Remember, you'll most likely be expected to split the costs of the bride for the evening with the other bridesmaids and guests.
Limo Rental (Per Person) $50
Accessories & Games $20
Food and Beverages $50-$100
Bachelorette Weekend 
Approximately $300-$1,250
Estimates based on a weekend trip. Keep in mind that in addition to your expenses, you might be asked to help split the cost of the bride's expenses as well.
Transportation to Destination $50-$500
Accommodations $100-$300
Food and Beverages $100-$300
Miscellaneous Activities (Think boat tour, night at the club, spa day etc) $150
It's easy to see how those pre-wedding event expenses can quickly add up.
While we're not telling you to blow off your pal's shower and bachelorette, it's important to consider the added costs before over-committing yourself! 
Stephanie Hallett
About The Author
Stephanie is a lifestyle journalist based in Philadelphia.
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